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Great news - well done! Keep us posted! And keep your chin up !

Buzz

Thanks Buzz

UPDATE

Went to court (remember this was my application to the court), Judge pays total attention to wife, spends 20 minutes telling us how he shouldnt be here as he is retired, that he bought up his children and we should bring up ours, No CAFCAS officer available so he would try and sort it. GREAT I THOUGHT. He continued to say its about trust, building trust....... (couldnt agree more) but x wife Oh no, pure hate for me. He asked me "did I agree not to take them out of the country with out agreement from her or the courts", I said yes as what kind of father do you think I am and why do you think I have bought this before the courts to do exactly that. He then spoke about contact (which has been happening regular) he then writes this down as one night a week. He then tells me I have taken enough of the courts time and I should apply for a full hearing if not happy (which I have). So I have now a judgement stating i will not take the childen out of the country without his or X permission and I can have the children one night a week......... FEEL AS IF IVE BEEN WELL AND TRULY BEEN HAD OVER. it does say by consent on the order so hey lets see how much deeper I can dig this hole that seems to ever deepening around me. (for the love of my children I feel like a criminal)

Hi all

Received my wifes statement of response that she filed with the court, saying basicaly I was unfit to take my children abroad, my son was so upset when he returns to her after stoping with me for his one night stop overs that it was so obviously that he missed her (he didnt want to go home was more to the point) and so on and so on...........

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So the question is why has this cost so much time, money and grief (upset and pressure for the children from my wife)................MY WIFES and HER SOLICITOR thats what. My wife as she is bitter, her solicitor as she sees pay day stamped all over this. The solicitor must have known that I would be able to take the children on holiday so why send me, the courts and wife letter after letter, advising my wife (X to be soon I hope) and then for her barrister to turn around to me before going before the judge saying "I have advised my client you will be able to have the holiday" ???? MONEY MAKING SCHEME FOR ALL INVLOVED I THINK

Any how Im so so happy for the children, one week together, cant wait for October Half term

Go FLATLINER!!!!! Awesome - well done you!

What's the budget - we have to find you the best weeks holiday ever! Although as we always say - kids just want time with us so i'm sure whatever you do will be great in their eyes!!

Best Buzz

Thanks Buzz

Yes im sure its going to be a great holiday.

For all dads out there going through tough times, yes it feels so bad at the time, (I have never felt like a criminal, I did feel that I was GUILTY until proven INNOCENT) stick at it, never give up and always think of your children when times get tough.


Thanks again.